Comments on: Double Standards http://deedlynn.wordpress.com Just another WordPress.com weblog Sat, 09 Aug 2008 18:05:22 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: deedlynn22 http://deedlynn.wordpress.com/double-standards/#comment-53 deedlynn22 Wed, 14 May 2008 22:02:07 +0000 http://deedlynn.wordpress.com/?page_id=7#comment-53 weightaminute--thanks for stopping by and thanks for the post. Hoping you have a good journey too!!!! Dee weightaminute–thanks for stopping by and thanks for the post. Hoping you have a good journey too!!!!

Dee

]]> By: weightaminute http://deedlynn.wordpress.com/double-standards/#comment-52 weightaminute Wed, 14 May 2008 20:10:02 +0000 http://deedlynn.wordpress.com/?page_id=7#comment-52 i joined KK after seeing it in Woman's World. i didn't join because of Christin's or Kimmer's before/after photos and testamonials, i joined because i thought it was a food plan i could/would follow. i honestly would not care if the KK site was to be shut down permanantly, as i've gotten everything i need out of it. i read the forums but i didn't join any challenges or start a journal, mostly i just lurked. i don't consider it to be my home site. i do follow the FWK threads(i went back to the first thread, caught up and have been staying current) and some of the blogs recommended within those threads, that's how i found DEEDLYNN's blog. as for me, i'm interested in what DEEDLYNN has to say, and i hope you continue to blog. i have this blog bookmarked and i will continue to read it. i still have access to KK and i have started reading your journal there. i sincerely wish you good luck on your journey. i joined KK after seeing it in Woman’s World. i didn’t join because of Christin’s or Kimmer’s before/after photos and testamonials, i joined because i thought it was a food plan i could/would follow.

i honestly would not care if the KK site was to be shut down permanantly, as i’ve gotten everything i need out of it. i read the forums but i didn’t join any challenges or start a journal, mostly i just lurked. i don’t consider it to be my home site.

i do follow the FWK threads(i went back to the first thread, caught up and have been staying current) and some of the blogs recommended within those threads, that’s how i found DEEDLYNN’s blog. as for me, i’m interested in what DEEDLYNN has to say, and i hope you continue to blog.
i have this blog bookmarked and i will continue to read it.

i still have access to KK and i have started reading your journal there. i sincerely wish you good luck on your journey.

]]> By: deedlynn22 http://deedlynn.wordpress.com/double-standards/#comment-51 deedlynn22 Wed, 14 May 2008 18:59:12 +0000 http://deedlynn.wordpress.com/?page_id=7#comment-51 blah blah blah..... you might have more credibility if you didn't need to make up a new yahoo account to respond to my blog. I appreciate your stopping by....if' you'd like to make it known who you are....or perhaps even catch up on the LCF, maybe there can be a reasonable dialogue....until then....thanks for your thoughts. Good Luck on your journey.. Dee blah blah blah…..
you might have more credibility if you didn’t need to make up a new yahoo account to respond to my blog.
I appreciate your stopping by….if’ you’d like to make it known who you are….or perhaps even catch up on the LCF, maybe there can be a reasonable dialogue….until then….thanks for your thoughts.
Good Luck on your journey..
Dee

]]> By: BLAH BLAH BLAH http://deedlynn.wordpress.com/double-standards/#comment-50 BLAH BLAH BLAH Wed, 14 May 2008 18:21:34 +0000 http://deedlynn.wordpress.com/?page_id=7#comment-50 Good grief, are you done yet?? Can we say DRAMA WHORE? Quit reading LCF if those people keeping hurting your fee-fees. No one is making you read it. Go put your head back up Heidi's ass. That seems to be your favorite place to be. Good grief, are you done yet?? Can we say DRAMA WHORE?
Quit reading LCF if those people keeping hurting your fee-fees. No one is making you read it.

Go put your head back up Heidi’s ass. That seems to be your favorite place to be.

]]> By: Disgusted http://deedlynn.wordpress.com/double-standards/#comment-42 Disgusted Tue, 13 May 2008 21:38:11 +0000 http://deedlynn.wordpress.com/?page_id=7#comment-42 Seriously. How old are you people? This whole thing has been blown way out of proportion, and all sides are acting like snarky high school girls. If you dont like someone, or what they are doing, ignore them! quit poking and antagonizing. it is unbelievable. Seriously. How old are you people? This whole thing has been blown way out of proportion, and all sides are acting like snarky high school girls. If you dont like someone, or what they are doing, ignore them! quit poking and antagonizing. it is unbelievable.

]]> By: deedlynn22 http://deedlynn.wordpress.com/double-standards/#comment-41 deedlynn22 Tue, 13 May 2008 03:41:41 +0000 http://deedlynn.wordpress.com/?page_id=7#comment-41 Wacky...your right....and actually...I began to understand it a little better with the post from CLEO out here....My posts to them came from being defensive.....thus the "taunting". When I read Cleo's post, she actually made some good points about the written word vs. debating in a oral forum. Gave me a little different perspective on it. I have called others out for taunting. I've also said that I will admit when I'm wrong. The defensive taunting of VWV, w-zilla, and CLEO in FWK forum was wrong. I should have handled it differently. Thanks for the post. Dee Wacky…your right….and actually…I began to understand it a little better with the post from CLEO out here….My posts to them came from being defensive…..thus the “taunting”. When I read Cleo’s post, she actually made some good points about the written word vs. debating in a oral forum. Gave me a little different perspective on it.

I have called others out for taunting. I’ve also said that I will admit when I’m wrong. The defensive taunting of VWV, w-zilla, and CLEO in FWK forum was wrong. I should have handled it differently.

Thanks for the post.
Dee

]]> By: wackytobeme http://deedlynn.wordpress.com/double-standards/#comment-40 wackytobeme Tue, 13 May 2008 03:16:09 +0000 http://deedlynn.wordpress.com/?page_id=7#comment-40 Dee, I do apologize, I went back and re-read some of the posts that were before yours. I had forgotten that your name had been brought up again. However, your posts did come off as taunting, trying to get people to come here to your blog. I can understand your wanting to bring it here so you have more control and respond to comments as they come in rather than trying to wade through the other stuff. But your wording was taunting, imo. Wacky Dee,
I do apologize, I went back and re-read some of the posts that were before yours. I had forgotten that your name had been brought up again. However, your posts did come off as taunting, trying to get people to come here to your blog. I can understand your wanting to bring it here so you have more control and respond to comments as they come in rather than trying to wade through the other stuff. But your wording was taunting, imo.
Wacky

]]> By: amyb1569 http://deedlynn.wordpress.com/double-standards/#comment-39 amyb1569 Tue, 13 May 2008 03:04:53 +0000 http://deedlynn.wordpress.com/?page_id=7#comment-39 Dee' You have no idea how I spent my day yesterday...Um..I guess now you are the one who knows what and how and when everyone should do everything. I spent the day with my DH and my 4 children..thank you. I am done with you. You are mean and hateful. You did not ruffle my feathers..you pissed me off..and I know that brings a smile to you and Heidi's face. GOOD for you. And BTW I THINK since Heidi shoved it down our throats her FAKE LYING goal for over a year..she might of wanted to post a real effort that she made to hit bday goal..just like I did. I really think you need to worry about you getting to goal and doing just what you are doing..spinning your heals. Now..I am going to go cuddle up with my DH and watch intervention..it is about a girl starving herself. Good Night Dee. Dee’
You have no idea how I spent my day yesterday…Um..I guess now you are the one who knows what and how and when everyone should do everything. I spent the day with my DH and my 4 children..thank you.
I am done with you. You are mean and hateful.
You did not ruffle my feathers..you pissed me off..and I know that brings a smile to you and Heidi’s face. GOOD for you.
And BTW I THINK since Heidi shoved it down our throats her FAKE LYING goal for over a year..she might of wanted to post a real effort that she made to hit bday goal..just like I did.
I really think you need to worry about you getting to goal and doing just what you are doing..spinning your heals.
Now..I am going to go cuddle up with my DH and watch intervention..it is about a girl starving herself.
Good Night Dee.

]]> By: deedlynn22 http://deedlynn.wordpress.com/double-standards/#comment-37 deedlynn22 Tue, 13 May 2008 02:49:31 +0000 http://deedlynn.wordpress.com/?page_id=7#comment-37 thinny--thanks for your concern...I'm guessing that I couldn't do the job I do...if that were an issue for me. I think I speak in great clarity...but maybe not. Starvation...I highly doubt it...I posted my daily food consumption the other day...somewhere and someone commented about how much I ate. So....thanks for the concern....if you have credentials that lend you to be able to diagnosis my "starvation" over an internet blog....please let me know...I might take you seriously. thinny–thanks for your concern…I’m guessing that I couldn’t do the job I do…if that were an issue for me. I think I speak in great clarity…but maybe not. Starvation…I highly doubt it…I posted my daily food consumption the other day…somewhere and someone commented about how much I ate. So….thanks for the concern….if you have credentials that lend you to be able to diagnosis my “starvation” over an internet blog….please let me know…I might take you seriously.

]]> By: deedlynn22 http://deedlynn.wordpress.com/double-standards/#comment-36 deedlynn22 Tue, 13 May 2008 02:45:09 +0000 http://deedlynn.wordpress.com/?page_id=7#comment-36 WOW---the truth seems to hurt a lot of folks..... wacky---I with some of what you said, and I hadn't yet responded to your first post today. I appreciated the way that you presented yourself...I like the inserts of humor....because life is to short not to laugh. But I disagree that I was taunting others....I believe I said nothing to them today...until once again, they brought me in the forum. Easy to keep me out. Leave my name out of it. Poke the sleeping dog...get bit...It's that easy. If that makes me an awful person...so be it. The reason I used her name...is because ...I believe it was ex-Kimkinite already put it there. I was pointing out that I did not originally use her name because of respect. I shouldn't have to start or go to another forum. Quite frankly....from what I've seen on most of these forums....I'm quite happy at the site I'm in. I do appreciate that in your posts you have been able to "leave" out the snarky and present your views in a constructive manner. I have already admitted that I have not always done that. But, the easiest way to keep me out of it....is keep my name out of it. Amy---Yes, I did say Happy Birthday to you in an email. Yes, I sincerely asked you questions about Phillip, because I wanted to know if there was something that I could do...even if it was just doing a walk in his name. That was sincere. That's who I am. I am also someone who does not believe that the blog was intended for anything other than what I called it on. That's what it was. I don't know if Heidi made goal or not. I wouldn't have know if you made goal or not. Quite frankly, I don't care. If someone wants to share...I will be happy to celebrate their successes. I believe I posted a positive response to your almost being to goal and that the rest would come. As far my blog. I think exactly what I said in here...it is a double standard...the intent was to hurt and humiliate. I wouldn't appreciate it if it were me, you, or others and I don't appreciate it with Heidi. Who is anyone to judge someoone else based on goals met or not met. Who are you to say. Your purpose was to "taunt", which is exactly what I have been accused of doing right here. And guess what, if Heidi had posted that about you in KK site...I'd have called her on it too...Banned or not banned. Your feathers are ruffled because I hit the nail on the head..... I don't think I ever said you were ugly on the inside...I said it was the inside [what I am seeing in that blog] that was disturbing. Very different meanings. I never said you were awful....what was done in that blog was awful....I have done some awful things...doesn't make me awful....And guess what...Heidi gets the same respect....she has done some awful things (admittedly), but she is not awful. Talk about twisted...I never said that I thought it was awful that you woke up breating yesterday. I may have been more accurate than I thought on the victim turned martyr comment...because you certainly had the ability to dish it out yesterday in your blog.....but clearly....when called on it....you can't take it. Here in this blog...you've had to put words in my mouth to prove your point. THings I did not say... I'm sorry that you couldn't choose to celebrate your birthday and success in a more honorable way. Good Luck in your journey.... Dee WOW—the truth seems to hurt a lot of folks…..

wacky—I with some of what you said, and I hadn’t yet responded to your first post today. I appreciated the way that you presented yourself…I like the inserts of humor….because life is to short not to laugh. But I disagree that I was taunting others….I believe I said nothing to them today…until once again, they brought me in the forum. Easy to keep me out. Leave my name out of it. Poke the sleeping dog…get bit…It’s that easy. If that makes me an awful person…so be it. The reason I used her name…is because …I believe it was ex-Kimkinite already put it there. I was pointing out that I did not originally use her name because of respect. I shouldn’t have to start or go to another forum. Quite frankly….from what I’ve seen on most of these forums….I’m quite happy at the site I’m in. I do appreciate that in your posts you have been able to “leave” out the snarky and present your views in a constructive manner. I have already admitted that I have not always done that. But, the easiest way to keep me out of it….is keep my name out of it.

Amy—Yes, I did say Happy Birthday to you in an email. Yes, I sincerely asked you questions about Phillip, because I wanted to know if there was something that I could do…even if it was just doing a walk in his name. That was sincere. That’s who I am.

I am also someone who does not believe that the blog was intended for anything other than what I called it on. That’s what it was. I don’t know if Heidi made goal or not. I wouldn’t have know if you made goal or not. Quite frankly, I don’t care. If someone wants to share…I will be happy to celebrate their successes. I believe I posted a positive response to your almost being to goal and that the rest would come. As far my blog. I think exactly what I said in here…it is a double standard…the intent was to hurt and humiliate. I wouldn’t appreciate it if it were me, you, or others and I don’t appreciate it with Heidi. Who is anyone to judge someoone else based on goals met or not met. Who are you to say. Your purpose was to “taunt”, which is exactly what I have been accused of doing right here. And guess what, if Heidi had posted that about you in KK site…I’d have called her on it too…Banned or not banned. Your feathers are ruffled because I hit the nail on the head….. I don’t think I ever said you were ugly on the inside…I said it was the inside [what I am seeing in that blog] that was disturbing. Very different meanings. I never said you were awful….what was done in that blog was awful….I have done some awful things…doesn’t make me awful….And guess what…Heidi gets the same respect….she has done some awful things (admittedly), but she is not awful.

Talk about twisted…I never said that I thought it was awful that you woke up breating yesterday.

I may have been more accurate than I thought on the victim turned martyr comment…because you certainly had the ability to dish it out yesterday in your blog…..but clearly….when called on it….you can’t take it. Here in this blog…you’ve had to put words in my mouth to prove your point. THings I did not say…

I’m sorry that you couldn’t choose to celebrate your birthday and success in a more honorable way.

Good Luck in your journey….
Dee

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